{"id":18760,"date":"2024-02-15T23:24:43","date_gmt":"2024-02-15T23:24:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.entreeearlyyears.com.au\/?p=18760"},"modified":"2024-02-16T00:04:36","modified_gmt":"2024-02-16T00:04:36","slug":"understanding-separation-anxiety-a-guide-for-parents-and-educators","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.entreeearlyyears.com.au\/understanding-separation-anxiety-a-guide-for-parents-and-educators\/","title":{"rendered":"Understanding Separation Anxiety \u2013 A Guide for Parents and Educators"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"paragraph\"><span class=\"normaltextrun\"><b>Definition of Separation Anxiety\u00a0<\/b><\/span><span class=\"eop\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph\"><span class=\"normaltextrun\">Separation anxiety is when a child becomes distressed or upset from being apart from main caregivers. A common and normal part of child development, it can occur in early childhood as well as with older children when they experience change.\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"eop\">\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"normaltextrun\">As children feel more secure in their new environment or situation, symptoms of separation anxiety should begin to settle. Often, they need extra comfort, support, and reassurance to feel safe and develop secure attachments in their new environment.<\/span><span class=\"eop\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph\"><span class=\"normaltextrun\">Below are some ideas that can assist in working through separation anxiety for parents and educators. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"normaltextrun\"><b>1. Show empathy and understanding<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph\"><span class=\"normaltextrun\">It is important to understand that the rational part of a child\u2019s brain is not developed enough to take control of the emotional part of the brain. Therefore, we must acknowledge that what we perceive as a safe situation may not be perceived the same way by a child. Showing empathy and focusing in on what your child needs in the present moment, offering reassurance and understanding is key to feeling safe.\u00a0 <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph\"><span class=\"normaltextrun\"><b>2. Establishing a calm routine <\/b><\/span><span class=\"eop\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph\"><span class=\"normaltextrun\">Planning and preparing before the separation occurs can lead to a smoother transition.\u00a0 For example, educators can plan for the child\u2019s arrival with their favourite activity ready to go. Parents the night before can have clothes laid out and ready for the morning rush out the door. Anything that can be done beforehand will always assist in the moment of separation when emotions are running high.<\/span><span class=\"eop\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph\"><strong>3.<\/strong> <span class=\"normaltextrun\"><b>Give a \u2018special job\u2019 when preparing for the day<\/b><\/span><span class=\"eop\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph\"><span class=\"normaltextrun\">Giving a child a \u2018special job\u2019 can assist in redirecting their focus to something meaningful and fulfilling.\u00a0 It could be as simple as parents assigning their child to place their drink bottle in their bag each morning. For educators, during the moments of assisting the child during separation, asking the child to re-focus by assisting with the setup of their favourite activity could also provide comfort.\u00a0 Parents and educators should work together to assign the child a role that is relevant to their specific areas of interest.<\/span><span class=\"eop\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"normaltextrun\"><b>4. Open communication <\/b><\/span><span class=\"eop\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph\"><span class=\"normaltextrun\">Open communication between educators and parents is vital in promoting a feeling of safety for the child. Educators should be accessible and approachable to families who are working through separation anxiety.\u00a0 Parents should communicate as much as possible about the needs, wants and interests of their child. There is no such thing as over-communicating! Taking this approach will increase the opportunities for the child to be supported by educators who have a good understanding of the individual child and their specific needs.<\/span><span class=\"eop\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph\"><strong><span class=\"normaltextrun\">Connecting Teams, Talent &amp; Educators<\/span><span class=\"eop\">\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph\"><span class=\"normaltextrun\">Thank you for reading our latest blog. 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A common and normal part of child development, it can occur in early childhood as well as with older children when they experience change.\u00a0\u00a0As children feel more secure in their new environment or situation, symptoms&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":17,"featured_media":18764,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"none","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18760","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-news"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.entreeearlyyears.com.au\/af-api\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18760","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.entreeearlyyears.com.au\/af-api\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.entreeearlyyears.com.au\/af-api\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.entreeearlyyears.com.au\/af-api\/wp\/v2\/users\/17"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.entreeearlyyears.com.au\/af-api\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18760"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.entreeearlyyears.com.au\/af-api\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18760\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18767,"href":"https:\/\/www.entreeearlyyears.com.au\/af-api\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18760\/revisions\/18767"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.entreeearlyyears.com.au\/af-api\/wp\/v2\/media\/18764"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.entreeearlyyears.com.au\/af-api\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18760"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.entreeearlyyears.com.au\/af-api\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18760"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.entreeearlyyears.com.au\/af-api\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18760"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}